The first and very solid fact is that no "love" can exist and grow between a girl and her father. I believe this is why you have shared your issue with us so before I give you some pointers as to how you could deal with this, let's put your sit uation in the right context. It is probably the highest form of betrayal you have both exposed your mother to and without a doubt, you ought to find a way to deal with this. This is one of those things in life that are just unacceptable. Stop this to be at peace with yourself and with others. He is not the only remaining man on earth. There are many single unmarried men that can date you. Someone who sees your mother naked should never do that to you and at the very age you are. The African culture and tradition do not support this and history will judge you harshly.
Your story is a bit ambiguous because it is not the resentment to your sister but the intimate love you have with your dad. Concentrate on your studies as this man is only wasting your time.īy law, he is and remains to be your father. If you got a child with him, what would that child call your mother? Stop thinking like a girl who has never stepped inside a school, you are a Third Year student in the university. Sleeping with somebody you call your dad is a curse to you. Imagine getting a child with someone you are calling a father? A man who has slept with your mother? Why do you want to break her heart? This man could be having other affairs outside and could infect you even with HIV. And that liking and favouritism she has for your sister will increase ten times when she finds out. Suppose it was you whose daughter was sleeping with your husband? How would you feel? What would you do to your daughter? That very answer is what your mother will do when she finds out about this. However, be in the know that you are looking at the wrong man. I think you are looking for a sugar daddy to spoil you by giving you money and other things.